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How to Add Your IBAN to a Wedding Invitation Politely: Gift Note Examples

Many guests ask “What can we give you?”, especially those who live far away and cannot come. Giving your IBAN in the right place, with a kind sentence, makes it easy for them and for you.

How to Add Your IBAN to a Wedding Invitation Politely: Gift Note Examples

Where to put it

  • At the end of the invitation, after the details, the map and the RSVP, never at the top.
  • In its own section with a gentle title such as “For those who wish to send a gift”, not in the main invitation text.
  • Not in the WhatsApp message itself: keep the message for the invitation and let guests find the IBAN inside it.

Ready wording

  • “Your presence is the best gift. For those who wish to share our joy with a gift, here are our bank details:”
  • “Your prayers are enough for us; for loved ones who asked about a gift, we left our account here.”
  • “For our loved ones far away who cannot join us and asked how to send a gift:”
  • After the sentence, write the account holder's name as the bank has it, then the IBAN, then the bank if you like.

What to avoid

  • Wording that suggests a gift is expected, such as “Please transfer” or naming an amount.
  • Putting the IBAN at the very top in large letters.
  • Writing the number inside a picture that cannot be copied; guests want to copy it with one tap.

On Davet

  • The gift section shows the couple's IBAN in its own area at the end of the invitation, and guests copy it with one tap.
  • It comes with the Premium package and above, and you can hide it at any time.
Create your invitation with a gift section

Questions

Is it rude to put an IBAN on an invitation?

It has become common and accepted when it sits at the end with a kind sentence, especially for guests who live far away.

Should I write the account holder's name?

Yes, exactly as the bank has it, so guests know the transfer reaches you.

Can the gift section be hidden later?

Yes, from the editor; the change shows on the same link without resending.

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