How to Add Your IBAN to a Wedding Invitation Politely: Gift Note Examples
Many guests ask “What can we give you?”, especially those who live far away and cannot come. Giving your IBAN in the right place, with a kind sentence, makes it easy for them and for you.
Where to put it
- At the end of the invitation, after the details, the map and the RSVP, never at the top.
- In its own section with a gentle title such as “For those who wish to send a gift”, not in the main invitation text.
- Not in the WhatsApp message itself: keep the message for the invitation and let guests find the IBAN inside it.
Ready wording
- “Your presence is the best gift. For those who wish to share our joy with a gift, here are our bank details:”
- “Your prayers are enough for us; for loved ones who asked about a gift, we left our account here.”
- “For our loved ones far away who cannot join us and asked how to send a gift:”
- After the sentence, write the account holder's name as the bank has it, then the IBAN, then the bank if you like.
What to avoid
- Wording that suggests a gift is expected, such as “Please transfer” or naming an amount.
- Putting the IBAN at the very top in large letters.
- Writing the number inside a picture that cannot be copied; guests want to copy it with one tap.
On Davet
- The gift section shows the couple's IBAN in its own area at the end of the invitation, and guests copy it with one tap.
- It comes with the Premium package and above, and you can hide it at any time.
Questions
Is it rude to put an IBAN on an invitation?
It has become common and accepted when it sits at the end with a kind sentence, especially for guests who live far away.
Should I write the account holder's name?
Yes, exactly as the bank has it, so guests know the transfer reaches you.
Can the gift section be hidden later?
Yes, from the editor; the change shows on the same link without resending.
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